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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a crush on a guy at work (I know.. already a bad idea). Nothing has happened but we are friendly. He goes out of his way to talk to me.

The other day he came up to me out of the blue and said something really snide about one of our coworkers. Basically,he talked about this older co worker smelling bad. I haven't noticed anything like that and frankly even if I had,I wouldn't say anything!!

I've been surprised at my reaction and I'm wondering if I'm overreacting. To me it was really cruel and heartless and suddenly I don't want anything to do with him. My brain has flipped completely from having a crush to wanting absolutely nothing to do with him.

I would like outside opinions on whether I'm overreacting or I'm right to make a note of this cruel comment and take it seriously. It threw me for a loop because one of the things that attracted me to him is that he is so kind and welcoming to everyone.

Thanks for any feedback. I don't get out much and I was enjoying the attention from him,but I don't want to be with someone that is cruel. I guess my gut feeling is that eventually he would be like that to me.

But I tend to get in my own way a lot with relationships and I'm wondering if I'm looking for a reason to reject this guy. [/quote]

Yes, it's a terrible idea to date someone from work.  In any case, I don't know what about mean by "take it seriously."  You're not in a relationship with this person.  There's nothing to "reject."  You don't even know how interested he is in you.  I'm not surprised you "don't get out much."  Maybe start working on that part of your lifestyle.

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