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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You just stop suggesting, and you show up empty-handed. I never picked up the rope. DH had plenty of time as an adult before we met to set the tone of his relationship with his parents. So I never even picked it up to begin with. In your case, just stop and permit yourself to disengage with the consequences. Unless he affirmatively asks you for help on something, do nothing.[/quote] The SIL Mother’s Day thread is what prompted me posting this. I just imagine if we suddenly show up empty handed, or if plans aren’t initiated, I will be the one getting the blame, even though it was always me planning it all. I guess it doesn’t matter, but I just want it received well by DH. [/quote]
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