Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
ยป
Eldercare
Reply to "How often to visit?"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]It was suggested to us to limit visits to help her acclimate. We hired an advocate to check on things and report back. She also said it was a good idea to limit at first. I do think it helped push her to adjust. Our mom was always dramatic and manipulative and had abusive tendencies, so I think if we had visited daily or every other day it would have been endless complaints and insults for putting her there. Low and behold she adjusted and remembered how to fake being nice enough to make some connections. She did age backward a little too once she started joining activities like theatre trips, restaurant trips. It was right up her ally and actually made her a teeny bit nicer to us when we did visit.[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
