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[quote=Anonymous]My now DH had a moderate amount in student loan debt (close to $100K) and I had exactly $0. I balked slightly at it at first, but really, almost everybody had that kind of debt at that age. I think he brought it up in conversation casually before I could ask. We paid it off so quickly after marriage that it was basically a non-issue. It took maybe 3 years without skimping too much on other parts of our life like travel. There is no my money his money, my debts his debts once you marry. You can broach the topic after a few dates but don’t let it disqualify an otherwise great woman (within reason, of course). If she’s the right person, you’ll make it work![/quote]
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