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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve been wanting to take time off to go to a wellness retreat alone. I just got back from a 1 week vacation where we traveled to stay with family. Aging parents. Needy sibling. It was stressful. He’s stressed at work, I’m stressed. We NEVER do date nights. In the past whenever I’ve proposed anything, he just made it super weird. So I stopped trying and tried to pretend like it was okay to be "with" someone with no connection other than going through the day to day. His view is that his contribution to the days to day stuff is him showing his love. He can go months with no non-sexual physical contact. That’s very difficult for me to do. But I have pretended for the past year or so it’s fine. I’m kinda crying now but whatever. I will be able to handle whatever happens, right? The shame of telling our family and friends that our marriage has failed. The even more lonely days and nights ahead. At least he prepared me a little for that though.[/quote]

I’m PP but the loneliness of being alone is way, WAY less lonely than the pain of being lonely in a marriage. I promise. [/quote]

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