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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Charm. It's hard to resist a charming and charismatic man. And if he is genuine and honest he will convince you to drop all your prior biases about divorced men with kids. I am remarried and when my ex wife she was 33 and I was 47. She had no kids and I had 2. She came into the relationship with skepticism. Like I said above good looking men, hard-working, charming, and honest will easily compete with any single man never married no kids. I have no issues attracting women due to my divorced status. Some of the divorced women on this forum were burned in their prior marriages. Their spouses might have cheated on them. They may have been sexually neglect etc So they don't talk positively about divorced men and lump all divorced men in the same bag going as far as predicting that such men will even abandon their kids. No all divorced men fit the dark profile portrayed by many women on this forum.

And let me say this as well. When you are one on one with a woman and you are entirely focus on her and she gives you the opportunity to prove to her that you are worth it, the task is not complicated for the man I described above. She will go back to her girlfriend they will still try to convince her to rethink but yet she will still meet you because you are intriguing and charismatic. [/quote]

One, you sound a little overbearing with your charm. But, that aside, just being divorced with kids isn't the problem. It's having baggage that is obvious. A crazy ex, or any of the descriptions that the PP described. I also think charm can make the new gf glaze over a crazy ex. But once married, she is then stuck with the crazy ex. That is what people warn against. Don't let him charm you so much that you disregard reality. [/quote]

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