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[quote=Anonymous]Insane body grooming and usually the night before his WAH day where he would inevitably have to run into the office for a few hours. Find my iPhone always showed him at the office during those times since he learned how to hack his location.

One time I checked when it wasn’t synced and he was halfway around the beltway- but it quickly went back and he gaslit me by making a joke. Actually would joke about having a mistress when he actually had one.

Taking on her interests which were so different from his own.  Like seriously- wtf? You assume it’s a midlife crisis.  Would also take photos of our calendar I now see was to make sure we didn’t have something during the data he was going to schedule meet up.

As it progressed, drinking more and more and being hypercritical and would explode over inconsequential/small things.

All of it is so gradual though that only looking back so you go—yeah, obviously.  But during it with your own work, kids, busy schedules, etc. you don’t see it all.  Also- with no “unaccounted time” or trips or “boys trips” or late at the office- you right it off as a possibility because when would it be happening? [/quote]

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