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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I finally came to the realization that my husband couldn't/wouldn't take the steps needed to control his depression/ADHD.  If he'd been trying to control it and wasn't getting positive results, I would have stayed.  But, to not even really try, well, I finally got so tired, so worn out and it was negatively affecting our kids that I decided the kids and I would be better off without him.  It's such a shame because when he depression/ADHD was controlled, he was really great and I loved him very much.  I still love him but he's not good for us.  It took me a long time to give up.[/quote]

oh god, i fear this will be me in a year or two. another PP asked you if you could tell us more about your situation -- what were the ultimate deal-breakers? how did you know you'd reached the point of no return? how are you and the kids doing now? i have been coasting in this situation for so many years already (at least 3, maybe 4) and part of me thinks that if i'm already wondering how much longer i can take of this kind of living then i already know my answer... anyhoo, thanks for your insights. much appreciated.[/quote]

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