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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How to tell a teen boy mom her kid is not who she think he is.

She posted on his birthday a couple of months ago he was the “kindest” boy among other things. I couldn’t believe it. I don’t expect a bad post from a  mother of course but “kindest” led me to believe she is really clueless.  Her kid cheats at school, cheated and on his girlfriend and bullied her with a long time female friend from elementary school, bullies other boys (he’s at an all boys school and it happens but not excusable, esp when it’s a kid on the spectrum or socially awkward type). Other parents know.

Admittedly, the mother is a bit in denial becuse or her own difficult upbringing. He is 16 but she is still extremely controlling (secretly looks through his texts, calls parents before he goes to a house, obsesses over his basketball, etc ) and thinks the kid is perfect as a result of her discipline.  Does one say something? I think she’d be embarrassed knowing the truth and would want to do something about it.[/quote]

OP, I can’t believe you are the parent of a 16-ish year old kid as your post seems to suggest. How can you have been around other parents and not know that there is absolutely no reason for the mom to believe you?

Based on how you’ve posted you come across as a whiny, petty, and mean-spirited, not to mention completely psycho.

Why in the world do you think it’s your job to tell a parent who their son is?

If her kid is bullying address it with the appropriate school authorities or if it’s your kid bring that specific issue up with her.

As for him cheating in school and on his girlfriend it sounds like you are repeating gossip because you have no first hand knowledge of that. If you do have evidence of the former you should report it to the school. The latter is none of your business.

If you were to ask me this IRL I’d take it as a signal to stay as far away from your crazy as possible. 
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