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Reply to "S/O--there is never a need to argue with another adult or engage in "conflict""
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[quote=Anonymous]Controlling people start "conflict" and "arguments" to agressively demand that someone do what they want, and when the other person chooses not to engage in the manipulation tactic, they claim the other person is avoidant, not able to handle conflict, and not able to handle communication. What you can do instead of ask someone if they'd like to do something calmly, in a non passive agressive or aggressive manner, and the other person can say yes or no. That's it. You can restate your cause, maybe one or two times, again, in a non passive aggresive or non aggresive manner, but that's it. This is what I expect. I don't argue or engage in "conflict" with other adults.[/quote]
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