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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Due to some relationship and health issues spouse and I have not been together more than two or three times over the past two years, kissing is down to once every couple of weeks and the tingles just aren’t there. We want to try and bring things back but it’s awkward.

Anyone bring their sex life back from the dead?  Both parties are willing and wanting this to work.[/quote]

my husband and i didn't grow apart as much as you but my generally low libido drove us apart. "just do it" was the route we took and it's done wonders. we had a major life stressor and it wasn't sexy at all but i started to make a point to sleep with him often in search of a way for at day's to take the edge off and prepare for tomorrow. now after 2 months of really making time to be together often even if it means losing out on much needed sleep, it's done wonders to fix what was broken.

i get that it may be awkward for you both at first and for a while, but i think you just need to used to each other again. to break old habits and grow new ones.

maybe because of the way DH and I have gone about it, our sex life isn't sexy really. but it's really better than anything I've ever experienced, orgasms like clock work.  After 2 months we've developed healthy sex habits to stay close similar to going for long walks, slowing down to share a meal or close conversations. and with this new habitat, every day is so much better. just in general ability to deal with daily stress has improved so much from knowing that we have solid walls at home. so i really can't recommend it enough to really stay on it and fix your sex life whatever it takes.
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