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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not PP but imho white collar or blue collar is just a social prestige issue not a real one, either can be hard working, decent and supportive people.

[b]Real issue is when debt, drinking, divorce, drugs, disease, violence, law etc are involved and family boundaries are enmeshed. Everyone gets pulled in. [/b][/quote]
I am PP who described the couple where the man came from addicted/criminal parentage.

FWIW, you are right that everyone gets pulled in. However, in this couple's case, the wife (UMC) was completely willing to "forgive and forget" her ILs' criminality and would provide money for bail and legal help for them.

She also has no problems letting ILs be in their house when they are gone and permits them to watch their toddler children while they go out.  Despite knowing ILs are still doing drugs.

So in her case she doesn't mind getting pulled in and in fact, wants to be the hero and help as much as she can.

As mentioned, her DH must have an intimate quality that has her "d!ckmatized."  Some would say. [/quote]

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