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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Snuggle. Don't even think about each other's naughty bits, just snuggle. On the couch watching TV or reading; in bed before sleeping and when you wake up. Go for maximum physical contact, like you're a baby sloth. Once you've reacquainted yourselves with routine touch, start to fantasize privately while you're snuggling. You can reconnect your body and your mind this way. Fantasize about whatever; doesn't have to be your spouse, just something that reliably gets your blood flowing while holding each other. If you're not feeling frisky for each other within a week or two, well, you've only lost a week or two. And then it might be time to talk to a pro. But definitely do hold yourself open to that possibility. You should be having sex. Sex is nice. Don't wait forever. [/quote]

Thank you! Did you revive yours like this?[/quote]

We go through phases. And yes, when I feel like it's dragged on too long, this is how we get back on track.

The worst thing for any intimate relationship is The Flinch. You know, when your partner touches you for any reason, and you reflexively pull back, even though you're not mad and it wasn't necessarily surprising or for any real reason other than that you don't want to be touched. And it happens so naturally. You lose the habit of touching and being touched, and the next think you know, you're flinching. Gotta stay in practice, or at least be willing to recondition when life gets in the way of long-term intimacy. [/quote]

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