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[quote=Anonymous]I am the introvert in our relationship so giving your DH the benefit of the doubt (he seems kind of mean), here are my thoughts:

He hates your friends.  Or he is just sort of tired of them.  He doesn’t want you sharing any information about him because he just doesn’t like them that much.  You may be thinking that his frustration is with you but he may be frustrated with your attachment to hanging out with people who annoy him deeply.

I relate to this.  DH has a friend group that he is very attached to and I am just sort of tired of them.  They are much more conservative than I am in every sense and I need a bit of a longer break from them and I don’t want to host them in our house.  When we have parties I spend a lot of time cooking and cleaning and it’s exhausting and I am mostly doing it to make DH happy.

Because we so many different groups of people that we spend time with, he is somewhat ok with this but as an example he wants to spend next weekend with these people and I gave a hard no and so he is taking the kids himself and going on a trip with them.  I am sort of annoyed but trying to compromise.[/quote]

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