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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't think your relationship is doomed. Maybe you can grey rock him when needed and give him some space? I'm the introvert in my marriage, and we've evolved into DH doing more social things, but in turn, giving me time for myself, like long runs, a spa day or just going to read a book away from the kids for a few hours. All that said, contempt, if that's what you're experiencing, is hard to overcome. I would suggest counseling and working on getting your relationship back on track (without any socializing involved). [/quote] The possibility of contempt jumped out at me too. OP are you familiar with the Gottman books on marriage? He lists contempt as a big red flag for problems.[/quote]
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