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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The question shouldn’t be why is my ex an ahole, hurting people do crappy things.

Regarding the people who believe the lies- It may be hard to hear, but something in your behaviors or character makes them think it could be true.  They are considering what your ex said and comparing with what they have seen from or know about you.  You may dislike them for believing your ex, but in reality the real concern is the lies were believable from outsiders that know you well enough to discount them, if they were completely out of character.[/quote]

OP - By all accounts I have an upstanding reputation. This is why most have not believed him, he was not liked. My parents also are not well-liked, I’m finding through talking to people. So it’s more that the brainwashing/abuse on me  caused me to be around these types. I am thankfully coming out of this mindset and learning to identify these types from the start. I now believe that the best thing a parent can do for their child is teach them how to spot bad people. [/quote]

OP, I was the PP. Rise above the noise. No one who really knows you will believe this stuff. I've had to say the same thing to myself. No one my husband is sharing these things with actually believes I am unstable or that I "abused" him or our son. My goal has just been to maintain my dignity, keep my mouth shut, and don't stoop to his level. Just because he's saying this stuff doesn't mean others believe it. Trust me, it makes HIM look bad. Not you.[/quote]

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