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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't understand. Easter isn't a holiday to her so it's nothing to give. If you were Jewish and celebrating for Passover or Muslim and celebrating Eid no one in their right mind would ask you to give it up for a secular good old time with them. Explain that this is your tradition for your holiday and again, she is welcome, but you will have to get together another time. Re-invite her, if she says no propose a new time, and be done with it. Your DH should be handling this. [/quote] Easter is a holiday for anyone. Everyone can hunt for eggs, eat chocolate bunnies, and have ham and deviled eggs. This is a power play and the MIL wants to manipulate and control. [/quote] I realize this. We "celebrate" with baskets and a meal but are not religious. It sounds like it means nothing to her and she doesn't celebrate at all. Or OP, does she celebrate in a secular way? [/quote] Sounds like you don’t celebrate either. You’re just doing cultural appropriation so your atheist self doesn’t feel left out. [/quote]
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