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[quote=Anonymous]There's really nothing more to say, and attempts to say more usually end up clunky, at best, or even harmful (things NOT to say: he was old/in pain, he's better off now, you can get another pet, etc.). A sincere expression of understanding and a willingness to listen are the best gifts you can offer someone who's grieving. "Losing a pet is awful. I'm so sorry for your loss." is the right thing to say. If you have fond memories of the animal, or a goofy anecdote, some people take the "what is remembered lives" approach to loss. Personally, I would find that comforting ("I'll always remember the night Steve ate my shoe, and how his paws always smelled like corn chips."). It can help people feel that you're with them in your grief if you have an honest, heartfelt memory to share. But don't push or force anything. Better to be brief than seem insincere. [/quote]
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