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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hi 13:30, what were the mistakes about not filing immediately? Since you were already separated 18 months, what's been taking almost 2 years? Do divorces drag out when there are no settlements? I've been talking to a couple friends about what to expect and most seem to have some sort of settlement even before separation/moving out. Is that not common?[/quote] My XH is financially and emotionally abusive. Originally he wanted an amicable separation and I believed him (I was still deeply entrenched in his narcissism even though I saw enough light to leave). Over a series of moves he outmaneuvered me until a trusted friend implored me to file. Since then he has used divorce abuse to drag things out, file excessively, refuse to settle except on his terms, mediation failed, etc.[/quote]
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