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[quote=Anonymous]I am HEAVILY pregnant (9 months) and have a really huge bump- I am showing heavily and feel really big.

My DH was all over me in the early/middle stages of pregnancy, and he's someone who is high libido and wants sex multiple times a day if I would agree. But suddenly it's like he's not initiating (maybe once a week) and when we did have sex he couldnt even stay hard the whole time, which has literally never happened before.

I already feel like an ugly hippo at this time and it honestly upsets me to think that he must be so turned off by how I look. It's already been hard for me to accept my changing body and the weight gain and this has made me feel so ugly.  I dont know if it's just pregnancy hormones making me feel emotional, but it really upsets me.  I know this is temporary and the baby will be out soon, but even still, it's my first pregnancy, and I have no idea how long it will take to lose the pregnancy weight and am aware things will likely look different, so it's really hard to fathom him just being not attracted to me anymore.

Additionally I have been super horny lately, which I told my DH as a kind of "green pass" since I'm often the one with the lower libido, that doesnt want to have sex as often as him. So I'm physically frustrated as well, hormonal and emotional in addition to all the physical changes of being at this point in pregnancy. Has anyone else gone through this? [/quote]

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