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[quote=Anonymous]Yeah as PPs have pointed out, this problem is only arising because your FIL didn't prepare for retirement and end of life, so it's falling on you now and you resent it. But that problem would actually exist whether this happened now when your DH is in his 40s, or later when he is in his 60s. Do you think you will be prepared to care for an 86 year old in ailing health with no savings in your 60s? No. You would resent it then as well. Also I know people never believe this, but spontaneous pregnancy in your early or mid 40s is not as rare as many people think it is. Are you saying that anyone who gets pregnant after age 40 is morally obligated to abort that pregnancy? I'm pro-choice which means I don't believe in forced abortion or forced birth. So... no.[/quote]
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