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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Today during therapy my therapist mentioned I’m very monotone and unemotional, and that I should work on expressing my happiness and emotion more.

I was reflecting back on why, because I wasn’t always like this, and I realized it’s from my xH. He was initially attracted to me because I was vibrant, outgoing, and fun to be around, but over the years he got so critical of what I wore, how I acted, how I spoke, etc that I just got rid of all personality altogether so he’d have nothing to be critical about.

I talked with some friends and I’m not alone in this. Most women have dated or been married to the guy who immediately tried to stomp out all their sparkle and personality.

Why are men like this? Why date someone who you’re just going to try to change into an emotionless, personality-devoid zombie?[/quote]

That's just called "aging" and being "jaded". 
Men deal with that also. Didn't you notice how teen boys are so much more romantic than men in their 20s, and especially men after a divorce.

Love Hurts. Love Scars.[/quote]

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