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[quote=Anonymous]As others have said-more boundaries-share less. Do not share personal details about your children that are sensitive topics-friend issues/school struggles/mental health struggles/. Stick to things like "Larla enjoys x,y,z club and she has decided to learn a new instrument/sport/language." When asked about anything personal just say it's fine.

I personally would not do a book club (something that is supposed to light and enjoyable) with someone who criticized me for not coming. You wanted to see a friend. It's not like you skipped work.

Basically you just adjust your level of closeness. If she genuinely wants to know why you are more distant and you feel she could handle it, let her know gently and assume the best of intention. If she is a busy body know-it-all who can't take feedback, act confused, but then if she asks something personal-say that is not something you want to discuss. If she gives unsolicited advice just do a dramatic pause and change the subject. [/quote]

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