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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DD will be 9 in May. She’s gotten progressively worse over the last 2 years, constantly angry and upset, lashing out, making sarcastic comments. We can have a great day of going to the movies, the arcade, dinner, and I’ll say no to buying one toy and she goes into a full meltdown crying, yelling, screaming it’s the worst day ever and she wishes I weren’t her mom.

Her dad and I are divorced and I understand she has a lot of emotion and struggle with that. I have tried to be patient. For years I have let her express her emotions and tried to be patient. I have ignored her bad behavior and tried to reinforce the good, pleasant behavior. I listen when she needs to talk but she just gets more and more angry when I listen and will start bringing up things from 2-3 years ago.

I finally snapped today. I took her to buy plants (which she loves), took her to see the new Minecraft movie, she was throwing a fit and being a brat the whole day, then when we were standing in line to go to Chuck E. Cheese she made sarcastic comments towards me and I was just done. We turned around and left.

I recognize a lot of this is also from watching YouTube (which her dad lets her watch with zero limits, and I recognize the things she says are from YouTube videos) and her peer group. The kids in her class are extremely foul-mouthed and also spend huge amounts of time on TikTok and YouTube.

When we got home I told her there will be absolutely zero screens, zero buying things, zero playdates until her behavior changes. I drew up daily calendars for her that she will follow down to the minute. I signed her up for 2 afterschool classes per day so she can be around better peers with more attentive parents.

I know I probably went overboard but I am so frustrated. The more understanding and gentle I try to be, the worse she gets. I feel like I am living with Veruca Salt, nothing is ever good enough. [/quote]

This cannot be for real.  Two afternooon classes per day - she's exhausted.  Shopping, movie and chuckie cheese... this is all on you.[/quote]

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