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[quote=Anonymous]I worked with a communication coach on how to speak up, have boundaries, and say no. Example: yesterday I was WFH and H popped in to ask if I wanted him to make me lunch. I said sure. He then kept popping in and out to ask me what I wanted, what we have, do we have XYZ ingredients, etc. VERY distracting and irritating since I don’t like to be interrupted while working. I told him that I wanted him to take full ownership of this task and see it through by himself, because if I had to carry the mental burden of stopping work to tell him how to make a lunch, I would rather just order DoorDash or make something myself. He huffed and said “fine I just won’t make anything” but 10 minutes later walked in with a burger. He’s fully capable of figuring things out, he just doesn’t when I’m easily accessible and will answer him or help him out. So I just don’t. [/quote]
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