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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You can give the ultimatum, but you should be prepared to accept his decision and follow through. Are you honestly and truly prepared to leave him if he decides he wants to stay on the fast track, or are you bluffing and hoping that he makes the 'right' choice? [/quote] Yes, I would leave. It was absolutely miserable for me being the solo parent while he had zero energy at home to do anything. I may as well just be a full single parent. [/quote] But you won't be a full time single parent. You'll share custody. You realize that, right? Maybe, maybe he won't actually take his time with the kids and you will, but officially and on paper he'll have every right to his half time.[/quote] OP. I didn’t mean full time, I meant full as in I’d rather be an actual single parent than a married solo parent. I’m fine with him having 50/50 custody.[/quote]
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