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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I got coffee with an ex from about six months ago - he reached out and asked if I wanted to. It was very nice but didn't go anywhere. He was a wonderful boyfriend but [b]I ended it because I told him I didn't have feelings for him[/b]. I'm so confused why he wnated to get coffee.[/quote] This is a common juvenile way of forming relationships. Indicative of a string of failed relationships. Similar to "the ick" that many women talk about now, or "the chemistry". Feelings come with sharing things and spending time with someone. The more time you spend with them, and the longer you are together, the more you will develop feelings for them. Nothing magical or difficult about it. If they are "instant" feelings of "attraction", "chemistry", etc. then it is usually shallow and those relationships will fade faster. I dare say 60%+ of men and women are in this category, which is why divorce rates are so high. [/quote]
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