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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If ex is only willing to spend 12k, and I pay 18k+ to bridge the gap, I feel taken advantage of. I feel I have already done more than my share since the kids live with me FT and I cover more than half of their expenses. [/quote] This is the crux of your situation, and you need to decide if feeling taken advantage of by your ex is a good enough reason (for you!) to limit your kid's choices. If you have other kids, it's also worth thinking about making decisions using a framework that will be fair to all of them. For me, it would come down to thinking about the long-term future. Would I feel like I've done right by my kid? The best I could? Would my kid agree? And then own whatever decision you make.[/quote]
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