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[quote=Anonymous]This sounds like my husband, soon to be ex-husband. My guess on mine is that he’s a bit narcissistic and just very self focused and self-centered, so he doesn’t even see that things are happening around him or that there are things he could do to be more helpful.

He also loves to come in with last minute advice after asking me to spend hours and hours on doing something and it drives me absolutely crazy.  Like he’ll wait until I’m two months and 40 hours into trip planning and then come up with a hotel suggestion because he heard about it from a friend…  it was just one of many things that drove me crazy, I think it’s because he overestimated the value of his opinion and wisdom, and didn’t really care about my feelings anyway. So I think, in my case, DH‘s world view was just that I should be thankful for his pearls of wisdom, and there was not even a thought about the fact that there’s an unequal distribution of work and then I was about to kill him.  Also, I think he so overestimates the value of his contribution that he doesn’t necessarily see an unequal distribution of effort.  Maybe this is like your husband?

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