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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you are in the DC area - LEAVE. The rat race is soul crushing and the competitiveness will get even worse. And please get some couples therapy.

The vast majority of that spending on the kids isn't really excessive. It's kind of strange that you're even considering divorce already. Motherhood DOES change a person. She has twins and she's anxious that she won't be a good mother without this. 
Obviously, I don't think she should be spending you into oblivion, but the DC area is insanely expensive. Even if you think it's a lot of money, it may not be. My dh is constantly shocked by the cost of literally everything and doesn't believe me at times!! It's not the same as a few decades ago. Be sure you're really understanding and also researching, etc. Don't leave it all up to her and then complain.

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Tutors for 3.5 year olds is absolutely insane.[/quote]

Tutor here-
Parents use tutors as a crutch sometimes to mask their inefficiency especially new moms or those that feel overwhelmed.
I have no problem with this- though a mom/parent tutor would be more beneficial [/quote]

For all we know, when the OP says “tutor” he means speech language pathologist, or something. [/quote]

Doubtful. He wouldn't have added the "no joke" comment.[/quote]

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