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[quote=Anonymous]DH had a vasectomy 1 year ago. I had a traumatic C-section that did not have sufficient anesthesia, I felt all the stitches. I am not eligible for a trial of labor or VBAC, so I would need to have another c-section. I had mastitis 5x and pretty severe PPA. For that reason, I chose not to have another child for fear I would have a similar experience. I'm 35, and DH is 40. DS is a very happy, healthy, and vibrant 5 year old. I love him so much and feel slightly sad at the finality of it. I wished I had been one of the parents to have a positive birth/post-partum period, but I didn't. I found it all really, really hard. DH left when DS was 10 months old for a 9+ month out-of-state job, and I raised DS pretty much alone with little to no support from my family or his. I'm very sad that my fertility is now gone, and there's no real hope of another baby.[/quote]
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