Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Money and Finances
Reply to "Reddit finance flowchart"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would say you haven't "probably overspent." You have definitely overspent. You took a HELOC for a want. Even if that one's paid off, there wouldn't be as much or any on the needed one if you hadn't taken on debt for the wanted project. Also how much was the needed repair and why wasn't there savings for it? I would put wants after the HELOC is gone. I mean you can have a little fun before that, but I think the point of needing to follow a chart like this at all at this point (meaning you still have debt when you're old enough to have teenagers) is to correct the overspending tendencies that caused the debt. It's not supposed to be painless.[/quote] By the way, I think I'm being a bit strict because of some of your phrasing but I may be reading some entitlement into "clothing your teens actually want, a little vanity and spoiling yourself." I do think it would be okay to have a certain small budget per month for these things, but on the other hand you don't want to get back out of control, which I'm reading as your natural tendency. But it's very good that you are separating needs and wants in your mind. And don't be so strict that you rebel, which it sounds like you want to. So in that case a reasonable budget and planning spending on the wants would be preferable to staying on track and then wasting a bunch of money one day when you can't take it anymore.[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics