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[quote=jindc]My husband talks about how excited he is to become an uncle, while I research and try to bite my to the that his 'male issues' are why we need IVF. It is insanely insensitive and when I bring it up, he says stuff li,e why are you so worried it won't work.  Besides that I don't like his sister, who he to.d we are doing ivf ("she's a doctor!" but her response to the info was, 'who will give her the shots'), I find it a little rough that he seems to be more excited about his siter giving birth to a kid he'll likely see once a year than he is about 1) trying to TTC naturally still before we start ivf or 2) learning about ivf - we have friends that went through it, and the guy would talk to my husband about what to expect, and he knows more that a first year attending ER doc.....
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I vent because many men really don't seem to get how taxing this is -emotionally, physically, (and mine financially - he assumes it'll work, who it won't be too expensive).  I don't think there really is a way for them to know, so I have sort of given up. He shows up to appointments when I tell him to. As long as they aren't intentionally making I worse, what can ya do?[/quote]

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