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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am headed towards a divorce at the age of 45. Two kids and husband is showing signs of being bipolar - he leaves us then comes back, wants a divorce then doesn't, stops answering his phone, etc. Any advice you wish you had before you went through a divorce (ex. wait a year to move, I wish we had approached the kids this way, etc). I am at a loss as to how to go about this and am feeling really overwhelmed. [/quote]

Instead of diagnosing him, get him in to see a psychiatrist who can treat him. If you need help to convince him to go, recruit his parents, sibling or a close friend. He is father of your children and they need him healthy, they can't divorce him. [/quote]

she can do that and [b]divorce[/b] him at the same time. [/quote]
Why would she do that if the issue can be resolved. They have 2 kids and they owe it to their kids to make the marriage work. [/quote]

adult's with chronic untreated mental issues "resolving" them. Lol.  That's for his mother and father to have handled years ago. Or now. [/quote]

Yeah, but they didn’t. And now with the marriage vow “in sickness and in health” the spouse bears some responsibility, especially as a coparent.

There’s many ways of going about this. Definitely leave the diagnosing up to professionals, and focus only on your mental and financial wellbeing. Talk to financial planners before lawyers…remembering their motivation is to make the process as contentious as possible. [/quote]

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