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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How often are you intimate, touching, cuddling, etc. in a NON-SEXUAL manner? Without any expectations or pressure that it will turn sexual and without any “escalating” on your part? She sounds like she’s low drive, but I think you should try baby steps to getting more physical contact in general with the goal of getting her to be more comfortable. Hand holding, back rubs, putting your arm around her on the couch, all that kind of stuff and keep it very G rated. [/quote] This advice falls into the do more chores category. Good to try but temper expectations. Often claiming lack of non sexual contact or chores is just a diversion/defensive response to let herself off the hook and redirect fault towards you. Both are obviously relationship responsibilities but there’s not a defined level of either where she cant continue saying “maybe it would be different if you did more” [/quote]
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