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[quote=Anonymous]I went through a similar thing with XH in midlife crisis/mental health episode. It sucks. My sympathies to you. Some things that helped -- got a great therapist who was my rock; leaned on friends and family; great lawyer; great mediator who was experienced with mental health issues; focused on rebuilding myself and self-care. You want to treat the divorce itself like a business deal. Sit down with a lawyer, figure out your position on all custody and financial issues. Mediate. Re: telling the kids, that sucks. We told them together once he found another house. We went to see the house with them that night. It was as gentle as possible but it still sucks. My life is SO much better after the divorce. Wishing you the best. [/quote]
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