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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry, OP.  Good for you for divorcing him.  The culture reaches women to coddle and protect and excuse mediocre, failing, and abusive men, and then blame women for their (men's) failings.  It is a endemic.  And she saw you do the same, right, for 10 years while your deadbeat husband was unemployed.  So please try not to take it personally that she is playing this role right now.  She wants to fit in, and fitting in means cutting a man's favor and cutting down a woman who is superior to him but who he blames.

The best you can do is be a badass.  Find some biting comebacks to his abusive language and grey rock him otherwise.  Some young women come to their senses and eventually become feminists.  But she needs you to be an example, not a simpering, cowering object of scorn.  Stand up straight and live strong.  Eff this POS you married.  He's weak and cruel.

Try not to perseverate and try not to appeal to her.  Treat her with kindness and dignity, but hold your own dignity highest.  She needs to see you rise to have any chance or escaping this as her fate when she chooses a mate[/quote]

Thank you so much for your kind words. It means a lot to be understood like this.[/quote]

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