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[quote=Anonymous]If they have money for it, you can hire someone who checks on them in AL and makes sure they are getting proper care. They usually are better at advocating than adult children because they know the system and often have worked in those settings. If your sibling doesn't want to spend their money on hiring someone and says she/he will do it, suggest he/she pays herself from mom and dad's funds to show you value her/his time. You can visit some without your husband if it's miserable for him. Definitely don't use all your vacation time visiting them. You need to enjoy life as a family too. They chose to live where they are.[/quote]
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