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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I hope counseling works for the two of you.  But more importantly, I hope you know that it's not anywhere close to your fault.  The "don't stress" line bugs me more than anything.  As if just calming down, really wanting it, and thinking positive thoughts could create a baby.  If that were the case, I'd have dozens of babies, instead of my zero.  It's completely natural to stress about every moment of IVF.  It's a tough process, and some DHs/partners have a tough time understanding things.  I think the innate desire to have a baby is such a maternal thing, and women often define themselves more by their families more than men do (and I say this as a fierce liberal who wants to work after having children).  I also think the fact that we women are hopped up on all sorts of drugs during the IVF process is often discounted.  These are drugs that are completely hormonal, and if we're lucky enough to have a BFP, there are even more hormones kicking!  It's tough.  It's such a draining process, and hopefully your DH can figure out a way to channel his own frustrations so that he's able to best support you.  Best of luck.  I do hope your next cycle is a BFP.  [/quote]

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