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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Husband now blaming me and saying that I'm the reason we didn't succeed.  Rationally, I realize it's ridiculous, but it hurts really, really badly.  
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I'm really sorry to hear this.  Obviously you know that's not the reason your FET didn't succeed.  This process puts so much stress on all involved.  Maybe it would be helpful for you both to talk to someone about your feelings around IF.  I know that blaming each other can be common for couples going through ART.  I don't think it necessarily means that your DH is a jerk who should never be a father, but I know I would be devastated if DH blamed me for cycles failing.  We went through a rough day or two a few weeks ago where he said that he thought I was being too pessimistic and based on stats I shouldn't be discouraged after 3 failed cycles--says the guy who doesn't have to be poked and prodded in his most sensitive area and stuck with needles almost daily.

IF can really put strains on marriages, and it might not hurt to have a neutral third party to help you talk things over.[/quote]

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