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[quote=Anonymous][img][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m really struggling with my new body after having my first and my husband has made me feel very self-conscious. I don’t think his comments are coming for a hateful place but it still hurts me. He has made several comments about my breasts changing and my downstairs. He had commented on how he’s surprised I don’t fit into my old clothes yet. He’s a clueless man but his comments hurt me.[/quote]

Your downstairs? You need to finish your basement?

Your language suggests your husband may not be "making" you feel this way, but exacerbating the way you already feel uncomfortable and self-conscious about your body.

Control the thing you can control: see a counselor or coach for some positivity and self-acceptance work. Then it won't matter as much what a man you describe as "clueless" thinks or says about the body that belongs to you, not him.

Curious as to why you married someone "clueless" about women, but I hope it works out for you. [/quote]

This is non-explicit so I’m cautious of terms I use. He has talked about how tight I will be once we resume sex. If it will be vastly different.

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