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[quote=Anonymous]From what I've observed, it seems many seniors (who are still active and relatively healthy - can still drive, etc.) do much better being near friends.

Their peer group seems to do well with looking out for each other including socialization, help with household projects, and driving to/from medical procedures and related follow-up help.

Of course, that can quickly change if their physical/mental condition changes.

We've also known those who have moved to be closer to adult kids/grandkids and are sorely disappointed since the kids rarely have time for them due to work and activities. They have found themselves in a place they don't necessarily want to live, without a peer group (seniors) around and feel a lot of dissatisfaction. It's affected their relationship with adult kids.

IMO, as long as they are capable, seniors should live where they want to and where they are most happy, WITH a back-up plan for longer term care when they are no longer able.

That plan should not automatically assume that adult kids will be looking in on them often (again, busy) so I don't think geography should make a difference.

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