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[quote=Anonymous]Ok, first of all pick a few blocks of time in which you are not to be disturbed, period. It may take some time for your family to adjust. But you lock yourself in a room, turn off your phone, and ignore them. Sleep, read, get stuff done, go out, whatever, but you are off duty and they will all have to deal.

Second, why is your husband so needy? Don't cater to him so much. No need for a big announcement, just quietly pull back on what you're doing for him.

Third, it's right for you to talk frankly with her about money. She needs to know the truth about your health and what that means for her living situation. Just because you're delivering bad news doesn't mean what you're doing is mean or wrong. The truth is hard sometimes but it's better for her to know.

If you go by yourself to a financial advisor you may get some relief on the money stuff. There's aid for seniors and if she's Medicaid-eligible she'll need to spend down her assets to qualify. So her spending/giving is not necessarily a problem. See a pro and get some real advice, you'll feel better knowing the facts.[/quote]

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