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[quote=Anonymous]I would tell him that the last time you all made plans he flaked on you every single time. Up to and including saying he "forgot" about you. Let him know that he and his family are always welcome, you would love to see him, but you can't keep your family hanging only for him to bow out at the last minute Tell him that you would love to see him and his family. But since he acts like the only relationship he wants with you is cursory and superficial, you are not assuming he will show up until he's on the doorstep. It's up to him, if he wants to be "Christmas card family" he needs to let you know so you can manage your expectations accordingly. Tell him the whole beach thing has hurt your feelings. Forgetting the dinner plans and telling you he was being seated at the restaurant is beyond rude. Would he treat a friend or colleague like that? I would say definitely not. He has treated you like crap and needs to be called out on it. [/quote]
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