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[quote=Anonymous]From a parent's perspective: After hearing and reading how adult kids despise parents inconveniencing and suffocating them with their calls, visits and invites, most parents are confused and scared about what's right and what's wrong. I prefer them calling and visiting me than vice versa so I'm not stepping on their or spouse's feet. I do use texts to keep and stay informed as they can check and reply at their convenience. I don't want to interrupt work, sleep, intimacy, workout or meditation etc and carve irritation in their memory. You call them when you feel like checking up on them or share your life. They are your parents, you aren't going to become small without playing tit for tat. As far as your brother's family is concerned, try not to get involved in how they manage their relationship with each other unless their is a health issue or something extreme once in a blue moon. [/quote]
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