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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He didn’t change, you did. Your childhood self adored her father (how great!). Your early adult self had some sort of freak out and has held it against him ever since. But he didn’t change! You just grew up, acquired more knowledge, had a bigger world view. All normal and good. Most people appreciate their parents MORE because they see them as adults and not through a child’s eyes. You’re still looking through a child’s eyes. Something a therapist I hope can help you with. [/quote] +1. You now need the humility to see your dad through an adult’s eye. It’s like you met your idol and now you’re disappointed because he made different choices in life than you would have. Why does it matter that he didn’t have the best grades or work for a well know company? Some of the smartest people I know haven’t either. Seems like you’re still very immature. [/quote]
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