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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. So this is what happens if I set boundaries - they get ignored or I get abused. What happens if I ignore what H does? Well, he brought 3 dogs into the house and he does not clean up after them. If I don't do it, I live in filth, that's bad for my health. DH's tea;th is more robust and he doesn't care. If I stop working and stop supporting our family (because he has a horrible work history), we will be homeless and have no health insurance. I could just ignore my demented mother, she would start to vegetate away in her home and god knows what would happen. I could just ignore everything and everyone and start living by myself. It would even be great for myself, but it would be awful for DCs and my mom.[/quote] You need to divorce. He has terrible work history, you say? Then there are no financial benefits to staying married? Also, you can rehome the dogs. Wake up and look to your own financial wellbeing. [/quote]
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