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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. So this is what happens if I set boundaries - they get ignored or I get abused. What happens if I ignore what H does? Well, he brought 3 dogs into the house and he does not clean up after them. If I don't do it, I live in filth, that's bad for my health. DH's tea;th is more robust and he doesn't care. If I stop working and stop supporting our family (because he has a horrible work history), we will be homeless and have no health insurance. I could just ignore my demented mother, she would start to vegetate away in her home and god knows what would happen. I could just ignore everything and everyone and start living by myself. It would even be great for myself, but it would be awful for DCs and my mom.[/quote]
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