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[quote=Anonymous]Asking others to step up is different from setting boundaries. You can refuse to do something, but it doesn't mean others will do the job. If you engage in a game of chicken, the person who cares the least will win, because they will wait until you panic and do the work yourself. So either you decide that you don't care about whatever it is; or you decide it really matters to you and you'll do it. Living with a someone who cares less than you is hard, because inevitably it means you will do more than your fair share of the work (or pay to outsource), and you will need to let go of certain goals. [/quote]
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