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[quote=Anonymous]Those situations are not even remotely similar. He is physically alone in his room because all of his friends are doing things he isn’t allowed to do, through no fault of his own. So he is actually lonely - no one around to hang out with.

You weren’t smart enough to get into a fancy school, so I’m sure you were jealous of your friends who worked harder and did get in. But presumedly you went to some other college or got a job and made friends and could do things with those people.

It’s like telling a hungry kid who can’t eat the birthday cake because they are allergic to it that you understand hunger because once you spent all your money on burgers and didn’t have anything left for ice cream when all your friends saved and got it.

Hanging up on you was kind of a jerk move. He should have just rolled his eyes and said thanks. But you probably kept bringing up your own stuff, which isn’t even remotely helpful. But he is still learning social norms and you’re an adult, so give him grace and stop trying to one up him. He needs compassion, not ‘back in my day!’ 
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